So ... is he ur bf if ...?

he asks u to come over but only wants to hang out with u after work ... watch tv ... no . he finds out u ordered a pair of crock shoes and says if he ever sees u in them, he will burn them ... he finds out from his friend that u r out somewhere and calls u and shows up. (o and i kno this isn't about control ... u don't kno details ... so if thats ur answer ... forget it) i kno ... just need to hear it.